The 3 Questions That Change How You Handle Any Challenge
Last week in Female Lawyers’ Club, we held a masterclass with Michelle Leivars on resilience and it was one of the most powerful sessions we’ve ever hosted.
Michelle didn’t just talk about resilience—she embodied it.
The Silent Struggle: Fertility Treatment Whilst Working as a Lawyer
Although fertility treatment is not something I have personally experienced, I felt strongly driven to create this blog post. In all my time as a lawyer, I have never seen anyone talk openly about what it’s like to go through fertility treatment whilst doing the demanding work of being a lawyer.
From reading accounts of treatment, I knew how physically and emotionally gruelling it can be. And it made me wonder: how many silent warrior women must be out there, showing up every day to do an already challenging job, all whilst dealing with unimaginable physical and emotional pain — often without anyone around them even knowing. I just can’t even imagine how difficult that must be.
How to Stop Beating Yourself Up
I recently went for dinner at Evelyn’s in Manchester with a lovely friend who I used to work with. Between bites of charred cauliflower, deep-fried courgettes, teriyaki mushrooms, and chips (we ordered all the food and it was glorious), we caught up on life, careers, and everything in between.
At one point, my friend asked me something that really stuck with me. She said:
“How do I stop beating myself up when I get things wrong?”
Codex Vitae
If you’re anything like me, your legal career has been full of ‘aha’ moments. Those insights that shift your mindset, challenge the way you’ve been working, and ultimately help you grow into the lawyer – and person – you want to be. But here’s the problem: unless you capture them, they slip away.
Enter the Codex Vitae.
The Hidden Secret to a Stress-Free, More Successful and Happier Life
Last week, Female Lawyers’ Club hosted an insightful masterclass with Jowita Penkala, an expert in personal development and stress management, on how to reduce stress, achieve greater success, and cultivate happiness.
As female lawyers, we often juggle heavy workloads, demanding clients, and the ever-present pressure to do everything perfectly, first time round. The session was a powerful reminder that stress does not have to be a permanent feature of our careers – we can take control of our minds and reprogram our thinking for a more balanced, fulfilling life.